Everyone that offers consoles isn't helping either because that person might holds some truth that OP was performing poorly, we do not know the story from the other side, so it's better to not judge either OP or the other guy.

I think him being an ass should be a motivation for you to get better instead of coming here, telling everyone he is an ass and made you cry. Shows him that you are a good and capable player by beating the contents, moogle has been around for weeks, there are a lot of videos lying around that can shows you a lot of perspectives from different classes, there are also a lot of discussions/tutorials.

I am fond believer that player that can take criticism well is the one that will be the best players around.