Quote Originally Posted by Miste View Post

You need to use them if you want to 100% show you are trying to set an aggressive tone. Otherwise the other person has no idea what "tone" you are using since they cannot hear you. Like I said before you cannot tell a person's tone through text if they use very neutral common words. Just using "you" doesn't mean someone is being hostile on purpose. "You" is a common and highly used English word, people use it all the time. Instead of assuming a person could just ask the other person's intention.
Honestly, there's no point in arguing with you about this any longer. Despite that fact that multiple people have told you that you can convey tone with word choice and provided examples, you brush that off entirely because it doesn't fit your particular worldview. I imagine you would be just as resistant to the idea that even when you can set tone, such as a face to face conversation, word choice is still important because even with a polite tone, confrontational words and phrases are still confrontational words and phrases.