Quote Originally Posted by Mavrias View Post
I really don't get this viewpoint, and a lot of tanks seem to have it. You're essentially playing a team based game, why do you think your feelings matter more than the rest of the party's? "I don't want to" isn't a valid reason to not do big pulls when the other three people "want to."
I definitely agree. It's not the tank who "sets the pace", it's the party. This is a team game. If the healer and DPS asks you to pull big, the least you can do is try it. Nobody likes a slacker, tanks included.