re: op,

I've heard that there are bots you can use to automatically post recent encounter dps tables to Discord. So if you're in a party with someone that has that, not that they should, you can still check your dps easily after a pull. It's not perfect but it saves you having to ask if you're interested, though it does require your friend to have a discord and the discord bot. Wouldn't be the same but its serviceable, kinda.