Question on DF expectations

[LunarEmerald]

This is what I would consider the ideal dungeon run

Big pulls, everybody aoes, healer contributes to dps as much as they can, nobody dies, tank positions mobs and bosses intelligently, aoe limit breaks used on trash, people know when to ignore adds in boss fights and focus down the boss, high dps that melts everything.

The add thing is a big one. When you're spending more time fighting adds that continuously spawn than damaging the boss, there's a problem. You should just kill the boss asap.