Question on DF expectations

[SuperZay]

Teach them what they are missing.
Too often I get negative cupcakes that ruin the experience for the whole group

You really can't wait those 10 additional minutes?
Then I'm sorry, but the DF is not for you.

You've all seen it before. You see that BLM casting only Fire 3 until out of MP and then they transpose and repeat it over and over. Or that WHM that casts Cure II as soon as tank's HP drops to 95% and never does DPS for some reason. That Warrior that refuses to use Defiance because they say it reduces their damage output and they don't need it for enmity gain. DPS who don't AOE on 6-8 mobs etc, etc.

Then you tell them what they're doing wrong and they often reply to you with "DON'T TELL ME WHAT TO DO" or "I can play the game however I want you elitist jerk" or even nothing at all or they leave the group entirely or vote dismiss you.

[NekoNova]

You've all seen it before. You see that BLM casting only Fire 3 until out of MP and then they transpose and repeat it over and over. Or that WHM that casts Cure II as soon as tank's HP drops to 95% and never does DPS for some reason. That Warrior that refuses to use Defiance because they say it reduces their damage output and they don't need it for enmity gain. DPS who don't AOE on 6-8 mobs etc, etc.

Then you tell them what they're doing wrong and they often reply to you with "DON'T TELL ME WHAT TO DO" or "I can play the game however I want you elitist jerk" or even nothing at all or they leave the group entirely or vote dismiss you.

I know.
I've ran into them before.
But I still consider them to be a minority, and keep going because the majority of people I run with are good players, even if they are new, they learn.
It's just easier to remember the bad experiences than the good ones.