I have no issues working with people willing to learn but my patience runs incredibly thin for people either switching roles to get better queue times or just expecting me to carry them. One such example is when I had to yell at a PLD to turn on Shield Oath three times after they pulled in Stone Vigil and wouldn't look at chat. After the second wipe where they couldn't hold aggro, my friend put up the Vote Dismiss. Similar incident happened with my first Shinryu. WAR died to Tidal Wave five out of six pulls then had the audacity to claim the healer was being rude when she last patience. This after she explained the mechanics repeatedly and he just refused to move. It's not difficult to tell who's trying compared to how has no idea what they're doing and just looking for a carry.