Can't use Aetheryte Pendulum

[Canadane]

Sorry for bump.
Does this not work when you are classified as a Returning Member?
I could not find my Pendulum anywhere on my character, I assume I've used it already

It works for anyone who has used it, no matter their status.
The item itself is gone, you activate it by selecting a new player on your friend list. They have to be on your friend list and they have to have the New Adventurer sprout. Your sproyt/flower isn't taken into consideration.