So ever since I started playing this game 2 years ago, I've both heard from a lot of people and seen in several videos, that the FFXIV tanking meta is different than most other MMOs. I'm just gonna quote something off of one of Xeno's video, but this is by no means something I've heard just from him:
"The way you tank in FFXIV is completely different than a lot of other MMOs. This game is all about Mechanic Damaging abilities or tank busters. The encounters in this game are very scripted, and the bosses will do massive damage on the tank only for a second, in short predictable bursts. This is mechanic damage. [...] ...If a boss is not hitting you with Mechanic Damaging abilities, then you are just receiving autoattacks - fluff damage. When the boss uses Mechanic Damaging abilities, you mitigate them with a cooldown.
The video then goes on to say something along the likes of "if your healers can't heal you through autoattack damage, then you need to get new healers".
Flash-forward to today's raids, where you have:
Alte Roite killing me with random tail slaps (not talking about the one before Twin Bolt/Clamp)
Catastrophe dropping me low enough so that I end up dying to the Dimensional Wave after the first tentacles come out
Halicarnassus doing 17k autoattacks and eventually killing me because they're hitting for 17k when I'm not mitigating
Given the above situations, is it still fair to say the tanking meta remains the same? Like, even during the Alexander raids, I remember being in a couple of situations where my HP would drop very low just through autoattacks, and by the time the healers decided to respond it would be too late.
I mean, just yesterday I was doing V3S, and the boss just randomly ends up hitting me with a 22k critical autoattack, which killed me. I have Vengeance running for the first Queen's Waltz and Dimensional Wave, but it feels like that's more for the autoattack damage I keep receiving. After Vengeance ends, I feel reluctant using another cooldown, because I like having something for after The Game, and have Convalescence up for the next Critical Hit.
But according to all the things I've been hearing about tanking, apparently I shouldn't be having to worry about using cooldowns for autoattacks. What is everyone's opinion on this? Is the meta changing to where tanks should start worrying about autoattacks?