Exp gain question

[EternalAmbrosia]

The most likely thing here is if you two are running roulettes. If you are there is a very good chance you are getting an Adventurer in Need bonus for being a healer as it often changes between Healer and Tank. It is almost never for DPS because there are so many.

We do the roulette's together. Hmm this may be a contributing factor. However I am the DPS and I am ahead of my BF who is the healer.

If you have a job at 70, you get extra exp. There 'might' be exp difference between jobs, but I'm not sure.

We don't have an alt job at 70. :3 just came back to FFXIV from WoW.

[Zetsumei_Tsunarashi]

We don't have an alt job at 70. :3 just came back to FFXIV from WoW.

You don't need a job at 70. You get the armoury exp bonus on any job that is lower level than your highest level job.

[LineageRazor]

You don't need a job at 70. You get the armoury exp bonus on any job that is lower level than your highest level job.

Bear in mind, this is your highest level COMBAT job. Crafting and Gathering jobs do not provide the armory bonus.

The next time you party with your boyfriend, take a look at your exp bars. If the portion of the bar indicating to-next-level is BLUE, that means you still have rested exp remaining. If you've got a lot of blue left in your bar, and your boyfriend has hardly any, that might explain why you're leveling much faster.

Additionally: Rested exp is great. Be sure that both you and your boyfriend ALWAYS log off for the day in a Sanctuary. You can tell you're in a Sanctuary by the little moon symbol by your exp bar. Sanctuaries exist in any town that has a large Aethercite - so any teleport destination. Residential housing districts are also Sanctuaries. Basically, teleport ANYWHERE, and it will put you in a Sanctuary.