Did you know not performing as you think another player should in a group

[Paladinleeds]

Sorry ..But I don't tell people how to play there character. If they ask for advice thats another story. But unsolicited comments on what they should be doing are usually going to be taken with a mind your own business attitude. That is human nature . And most people will react in that way. Thats just the way people are. If you think about it you would act the same. Especially now when you think you know what you are doing.

I don't know why people are suprised that people react this way.

Maybe because I've done it so many times and 9 times out of 10 I've received a positive response? Perhaps it has something to do with how I'm phrasing it. I do it as a "Have you considered this?" type approach. Pointing them out to something new that may be worth them trying. I phrase it in a way that is taken as a suggestion, and most people will at least try it I find.