Did you know not performing as you think another player should in a group

[Paladinleeds]

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Here's the thing, most won't kick right off the bat. A lot will try to advise on how to improve, and if they refuse to take the advice, THEN they will kick. If they're trying to take on board the advice but struggling, people will usually let it slide outside of Savage/Ex Primals, because at least they're trying. And yes, "Playstyle Difference" is a valid reason to kick. Most players know the DF is a roll of the dice what you'll get, but there's a certain level of performance people will expect from you if you want to stay in that group. Want to derp around being a "Thunder mage"? Ok sure, but take it to PF and state it from the outset. Having trouble performing due to disability? Ok, no problem, just give us a heads up, we'll accommodate. Not 100% sure on the class/duty? Not a problem, let's help you out, just let us know. Yes, you get the odd jerk that is "my playstyle only or kick", but most will give advice and help find a middle ground that is efficient, but doesn't need to be perfect.

Most are willing to give a chance if someone is struggling. Heck, I hate kicking, but if someone gave me the "my sub my way" comment on being given advice, you bet my patience will run thin and I will accept a vote kick prompt that appears. The advice I give is given in a constructive way, that explains a better way in a "Have you tried this?" situation. I also explain why it is better. I give it in a "You may have missed this" tone, which if they don't realise about it, they'll appreciate it.