Did you know not performing as you think another player should in a group

[ArcanoJones]

If a BLM is doing mostly Thunder spells, with an occasional low potency nuke, that run is going to take longer than an extra 2-3 minutes. The BLM in question was asked why they were playing the way they did and basically told the party to buzz off. They were underperforming and didn't care. In my book, I'd call that getting carried.

I imagine there is more to it than that. People tend to exaggerate the circumstances of things to make them self look in the right. Thats human nature. I never take either sides account as total truth.