Did you know not performing as you think another player should in a group

[bswpayton]

I remember the old days when I first started playing MMOs. People would take there time. They would talk. It was a social event. It was an adventure. I go into PUGs now. Nobody says a word to anyone as the entire group speedruns the dungeon. I sure miss those old days playing Everyquest and WOW when it first came out of 2006. Those where the MMO heyday. Now nobody says a word to you and most people ar enot helpful and will kick you out of the group at the slightest provocation. However I have met some nice people in groups so I am not saying everybody is that way. But it seems the majority are.

Just have to adapt

[InfiniDragon]

I remember the old days when I first started playing MMOs. People would take there time. They would talk. It was a social event. It was an adventure. I go into PUGs now. Nobody says a word to anyone as the entire group speedruns the dungeon. I sure miss those old days playing Everyquest and WOW when it first came out of 2006. Those where the MMO heyday. Now nobody says a word to you and most people ar enot helpful and will kick you out of the group at the slightest provocation. However I have met some nice people in groups so I am not saying everybody is that way. But it seems the majority are.

I'm kinda with you. I love XIV and don't need all aspects of classic MMOs, but this is an apt image to compare modern MMOs to the old ones:

[Elfidan]

I'm curious what the scenario was.

[Shippuu]

Did you know that you're wrong OP?

[Destatiredux]

This also plays to your benefit though. The "differing play styles" rule also protects people from being stuck with a player who would make any instance needlessly long or difficult by not performing their role properly. For instance, I once had a party in Rhalgr's where I found a new rare variation of The Ice Mage: the Thunder mage. No joke, this guy used everything under the sun aside from fire / blizzard spells - sleep, scathe, lots of drain, but mostly pelting enemies with Thunder spells. After asking him why he was doing this, and requesting for him to play his job properly as he ought to know how to do at level 70, he told us we needed to do OUR jobs correctly. So we promptly kicked him and finished the dungeon with the three of us. Hilariously enough a fourth dps joined us only after we started fighting the last boss, and was treated for his time with free tomes and all the loot dropped from the final boss, and our comms because why not lol

[Jijifli]

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I literally had a thunder mage leveling my ninja and I found it so irritating. I tried to explain and help but was met with the usual complete silence. I'm just confused on how people honestly play that poorly and not realize how much they hold a party back. I get not performing the rotation perfectly, but doing so little that their death doesn't even slow down the boss fights?

[ArcanoJones]

What are you being protected from exactly Destatiredux. Did your group wipe over and over. Seems you are trying to force people to play your way. Your group is the one who had no consideration for the person you kicked. You might have actually had to take 2-3 minutes longer to finish the dungeon. You make the person have to repeat the dungeon. You make them feel bad and effect there enjoyment of the game and you also show your not a very nice person..and what for . To save a couple of minutes. I have been kicked for a group when I first started playing without a word said to me. Happened once only. Only time I was kicked. Nobody said what was the reason. Just kicked. I have no idea.

[missybee]

Seems you are trying to force people to play your way. YOur th eone who had no consderation for the person you kicked. You might have actually had to take 2-3 minutes longer tho finish the dungeon.

You can think it is rude until you are blue in the face, but at the end of the day, vote kicks are a democratic process.

In Destatiredux's case, it isn't about forcing someone to play his or her way so much as trying to help someone play their job in a way that isn't just objectively wrong.

[lokowoko]

vote kicks are a democratic process.

all it takes is one person and their buddy to abuse the kick function

[Reynhart]

You can think it is rude until you are blue in the face, but at the end of the day, vote kicks are a democratic process.

It's a democratic process that never requires more than 50% approval from the group. It's deeply flawed.