What is your view on RP or ERP and why is it so taboo within the community?

[JumperX]

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Let me clarify it. most guys flirt with another player regardless of knowing or not their real gender (very different to what most girls do while playing a male character). What they just care is the character's gender aka they must be female human being outside the game, too ( some people gets too involve and try to make start a relationship without even really trying to get to know the people. I know -from both sides- that guys just assume the gender of the female character and the player with the female character wants to enjoy that relationship since they can't outside the game? so they keep quiet.)

This happened in some RP too. I believe one person mention how drama always follow RP cuz of people assumption without even asking and getting to know more their friend. Your situation sounds like of my friends' experience I mentioned in my previous post. Some of my friends got people talking to them in public chat and in PMs