How does SE justify these ten min enrages, but doesnt let anyone know their dps

[Miste]

I've seen swathes of people being shamed and kicked.

I'm wondering how I've played this game for 4 years now and have not seen any of this happen really...I can think of like one or two instances of someone being kicked from a PF group in all those 4 years, yet you've seen this happen a lot? Something seems off about that...4 years and farming through PF very often too.

To be honest and completely fair though a PF group is a PF group. The leader gets to stipulate any and all rules for their party because they took the time to make it and lead it. They don't have the right to shame (insult or harass) anyone, but they do have full right to kick anyone they wish from their party since they created it and if you want to avoid situations like that then you also have the option to create and lead your own PF party where you make the rules.

There are Party Finders saying 'DPS below 3.5k = kick'

I farmed both Susano EX and Lakshmi EX and I never had this problem...but then again I wouldn't join PFs that say they are going to kick people for silly reasons either (you don't need that much DPS just to clear susano ex or lakshmi ex). If those PFs don't suit your needs then you join a different one that doesn't say those things or you create a PF party yourself and lead it.

I mean even on my data center I've seen some PFs say like 'one mistake = kick', but I just ignore those groups and don't join them. There are plenty of other groups that don't put those kinds of things in their PF message and I'll just join those instead. You can easily avoid these people if you choose to.

'no Frenchies' because they stereotype French-speaking players as being bad.

You're blaming parsers for this? I don't think that would be accurate or fair....this is just rude stereotype and the only thing you can do is try reporting it to a GM. Nothing to do with parsers at all...anyone who would write that in their PF is obviously just a rude person anyway.