How does SE justify these ten min enrages, but doesnt let anyone know their dps

[missybee]

However there is a much larger majority that use the data as an excuse to attack people because it validates their opinion that "you suck and should uninstall this game, you are a piece of shit blight on this community".

You say that, but if anyone actually says something like that it's an easy temp ban at least (assuming they get reported, which they should).

Again, anecdotes, but I've literally had ONE person in the entirety of my playtime tell me I was doing poor DPS, and a) I was dead, and b) I was also parsing and saw that I was not.

Obviously, your mileage may vary...but again, parsing isn't the enemy. People who are a-holes are the enemy.