Quote Originally Posted by zipzo View Post
I'm a hardcore player from a gameplay and mechanics understanding perspective, and I am a super casual when it comes to time able to expend perspective. Reason why: I have a wife and kids. I simply can't afford the necessary time to show off my skills or get the gear necessary to do so effectively (at least not quickly).

That's just reality for me.
My respect to you for putting your family first, if we are Role playing you are like a bad ass adventurer but "took and arrow to the knee" lol. In the end gaming is supposed to be fun