
Originally Posted by
Maeka
If a DPS takes a break or looks away from the screen, etc, he loses some DPS or maybe eats an AoE (hopefully not, lol).
If Healer looks away from the screen, etc, someone might end up getting killed. A healer's job is a lot more important, and he has far less leeway than a DPS does. If a DPS decides to stare at the screen slack-jawed for 10 seconds at a time (or if they have to half-AFK for 10 seconds because something happened RL) then it's not such a big deal as long as he is at least dodging the AoEs.If a healer does this... the tank WILL die, period and everybody else will be enjoying a nap right behind him. Well, unless the tank is a Paladin maybe. But even then.
Being a healer is far more stressful and if you screw up too badly, the entire group will be dead. The only time a DPS causes a wipe is enrage, or failure to deal with mechanics on bosses (such as stacking/spreading out, or not killing adds, etc).
So the reason why a healer might be entitled to a break more often is because, yes, their job is quite a bit more stressful and demanding.
Also, since I've played Tank, Heals, and DPS at Lv60+, I can tell you that as a DPS, especially one like SAM that has no utility/etc, it is much more laid-back. I only need to care about Me, dodging AoEs, and doing whatever special stuff I need to do for a boss (picking up Yojimbo's coins, etc). I don't have to even look at my party window whatsoever, I only pay attention to me, my abilities, my cooldowns, etc.
As a Healer... I need to keep track of everybody's well-being including my own, dodge AoEs, and if I should DPS I need to make sure I can do so safely, if it's a good time to do so, I keep to keep an eye on DPS to make sure somebody didn't derp into an AoE or something... etc. It's far more work. Playing a SAM is... barely even 25% of the work/stress/attention span required. So yes, I would expect a SAM, for example, to be mashing their buttons constantly moreso than I would expect a healer to do the same. The healer does far more work.
EDIT: You edited your post, and I didn't notice it haha. To reply to the second line of what you said, yes I do believe in a grey area (in fact the post of mine you quoted, I asked 'can't there be a happy medium?'. I don't want to see a healer (or anybody for that matter) sitting in the corner doing who-knows-what while we're doing all the work.