Well, how have you been opening? I never seem to bump into other Monks, so I've been going off of a YT video or two and my own assumptions. I've been doing;
FSx3
Demo+PB
SP+Diversion
SP(+Strength Pot, if that's your jam)
DK+IR
TS+RoF
Demo+FC+Brotherhood

And then refreshing as needed, of course.