Unfortunately, it sounds as though you met a bunch of idiots. My wife dresses in a combat bikini all the time. I dress like a dandy. One of my friends is always a snowman. Another is a pretty girl who insists on wearing sensible, practical gear. All of these choices are fine, because S-E designed the glamour system to accommodate a variety of tastes. They can't police people acting like idiots, unfortunately, unless they break rules and you report them for harassment.

(OP, you seem to have really low self esteem as you have mentioned that people should report and ban you for making stupid remarks a few times now. I'm a bit worried about you; are you ok? Serious question. You have just as much right to post here and dress your character as anyone else.)

Edit: It looks as though you have a bikini glamour. Some people are offended by this because they have insecurity issues themselves, but it's really nothing you've done wrong. Bikini glamours are popular, especially now we have so much swimming content. Go for it.