Getting hate for glamour

[Paladinleeds]

Ok fine guys just report me so i get banned from forums for posting this stupid thread and for posting stupid post everywhere.

Also report me in-game too so i get banned from FFXIV completely and never able play it again.

If there is any mods out there please close this thread asap and ban me for posting this stupiud and pointless thread.

Take it from someone who has tried it. It won't work. I've lost track of the amount of times I've tried reporting myself to the GMs. Unless there's been a rule breach, which there hasn't (sure, the thread may be a bit ridiculous, but it doesn't break any rules), you're not getting banned. Simple.

Also, let me quote my previous post, since I think you need to see it.

Funnily enough, I've tried that strat myself. I'm still here (even after the storm I unleashed that was the extreme undercutting thread). Your posts aren't banworthy. You won't get banned for it no matter how many reports you send. In all honesty I'm seeing traits of perfectionism in you, like if anything isn't right, you should be banned. Same problems I'm having and am currently receiving therapy for. Hang in there, you can get through this. Also, you're on Cerberus, which is EU datacentre, so if you need me for anything, let me know, I'm willing to come and lend a hand.

As someone who can see what's going on in your mind because it's very similar thoughts to what I have, I am concerned. I don't believe you should be banned, but I do believe some therapy may be in order. It seems to be ingrained into you at a level similar to mine. As a concerned individual trying to talk to you like a friend here, please look into Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. As I am learning, these thoughts aren't healthy. This link will showcase the different unhelpful thinking styles you seem to display at least some of. It's OK, you will get through this.

EDIT: Because I must surely be hitting my post limit soon, gonna edit this in...

I just have one question.

"Why do you want to get banned?"

It is quite clear this is something you are looking for... why?

Allow me to answer this. If it's anything like what I go through (and her posts seem to signify that it is), it's a feeling of that a mistake is the equivalent of breaking the law and taking a very black and white approach to these things. It's either right or wrong. She also seems to be catastrophising the issues, and not looking at the positives she brings. Tied to low self-esteem and perfectionism.

EDIT2: the PDF linked in my quote of myself lists the "black and white thinking" as "All or nothing thinking", but they mean the same thing. She seems to be using all the unhelpful thinking styles listed in the PDF. Something which I also do.

If you're around in a few hours and want to chat, feel free to make a throwaway character on my server and ping me a message.

I also extend this offer. We can also use it to get groups together if you wanna do anything with me around, since our mains are on the same datacentre, so cross-realm PF is a thing that can be used effectively.

I'm genuinely worried by your obvious unhappiness.

Agreed. I'm also genuinely worried, and despite my communication issues I have, I am willing to lend an ear. I know what it's like. I've faced it myself (and still do face it). It's not nice at all. Having someone who's been through it themselves and can truly understand may be beneficial. She's not alone. A part of me wants to make a throwaway character on Cerberus and message her asking if everything is OK and what can I do to help.

EDIT3: I've done it, made a throwaway character on Cerb with the same name as this one. I won't use it yet, but if things continue to get worse, I'll step in and use it.