Getting hate for glamour

[Rasylia]

Stuffz

And here we have the other side of the story.
I don't know OP and i don't know about his condition, and i dont dare to make any assumptions. But, from what we see in the screenshot, OP simply overreacted in Game and is acting like a child in this thread.
I can only advice OP to start thinking about a) not queing alone anymore or b) leaving the game if small things like this have such a huge impact on his / her life.

[EdwinLi]

Oh ho, as someone with autism myself, I'd know. And yes, you're right. We have completely different ways of thinking. Our brains are wired differently. Because of the already established societal norms, our actions are seen as extreme. But, in actuality, it is indeed a difference in thinking. I'm on the high functioning end though, so don't go to those extremes.

Sorry if I offended you. It was just a example if something goes completely horribly wrong.

[Jybril]

There's always two sides to the story and with what
Wilian said, I figured that was the case as said earlier in my 2nd post.
The op just needs a thicker skin tbh.

[Serilda]

Ah, yet another case of communication gone wrong and everyone on both sides ending up hurt. Banter with strangers is always a risky proposition, but Wilan's group obviously had no idea they were treading on such a big landmine with the OP feeling low already.

At least this clarifies that glamour definitely should not be deleted (obviously).

(Disclaimer: I am not trying to be a psychiatrist in any way, shape or form. I am merely offering the opportunity to talk, human to human, in case it helps. Not everyone has ready access to a friend.)

[micropanther7]

Yeah PaladinLeeds I know this myself because I have a cousin with asperger's syndrome, two relatives with autism, as well as family members with mental health issues (you know now why I got teasy in this thread lol), they all love gaming, and also awareness of their social interactions with others online, how to prevent situations like this from arising... why the idea for your guild is such a good idea. I think with the right support you can learn to deal with all sorts of people, and just brush it off... like somebody said few pages back, proper professional support as well as a good support group really goes a long way, that's priority, can't go into much personal detail on the forums but the young lads I know are doing great for themselves

[KageTokage]

I've only been criticized once about my glamour before, and it was just some guy saying the Link cosplay I use for my tanking classes at times looked weird on a female Au Ra.

That was just one complaint vs. a few dozen compliments, though.

[Deedsie]

I'm one to dress up in a similar nature nearly all the time. Like how you look? Keep at it. I've seen people run around in full pig costumes.

[Niraves]

I'm personally not fond of the super skimpy glamours but I would never give anyone a hard time for wearing one. Wear what you want and blacklist idiots that tell you otherwise.

[Baci]

Why is lately everyone crying because someone was mean to him/her?

[Zarabeth]

Unfortunately attention seeking will not get you banned. Carry on.