I feel your pain OP. Plenty of fluffy candy in the game, but no meat... Sad thing is they have a decent stopgap fix readily available for this issue, but they refuse to use it. Just uncap tomestones (or cap per job) and make lockouts seperate per job. As it stands you can't even play alts as they will always be behind and cannot participate in what content we have to play them in.

but noooooo... Master Yoshi will never let us actually think and decide for ourselves if we want to do that or not...