also being in a ls that speaks u'r language doesn't help, i'm in a very large ls, pretty much full and it is still hard to put together more then a few people to grind, we are all different ranks. in ffxi the population took care of it all, was very easy to put a party together, if u was lfg for hours u probably should of took 5seconds to make one cause it always had players seeking. besides that and all love to my linkshell but i don't want to party with the same group for years, i'll get to know them threw the years, and i'll happily party with them, but the concept that i am gonna be party'ing with the same 6-10people for years is obserd. i don't think in a full ls in ffxi i party with my ls in 5years more then 5% of the time, and most of that time they were probably half afk, and leechers in them cause they think its ok to waist ls members time cause we all friends. this might be a notch for the solo, but i doubt half the players on our servers would get half the sp without there parties lmao.