"Pull Everything" in Dungeon Parties

[Eldevern]

Few players seem to imagine we all spend our life in the game, levelling all jobs and farming so often all dungeons we are bored of everything and want big pull to get the pill.

I summarize what they say pretending they respect people who learn (non-sense since they imagine other's life and other's gameplay/playtime) :
If you play tank one time a week, in one dungeon, -one possible reason why all people are not really always confident and avoid big pulls- don't even try to learn, just leave the game, your are too bad for our standard. We don't have time to lose with you learning.

Some kind of contradiction when they suggest to people to levelling in dungeons. Some kind of contradiction too when they pretend they respect players who are in learning phase.

Do not use the DF, as if people in FC were always available at our pace. Other kind of non-sense (for multiple reason these pseudo-PGM seem unable to admit, since they don't seem to think about before running on their PGM high horses).

Not all players need adrenaline. No all players are in need of some kind of stress. No all player feel kind of competition. Few? Some? are maybe just looking for some kind of relaxation in alternative world (doesn't it make sense in a RPG?). Does this forbidde them to play tank (or other job, it means for all jobs, in fact), to learn at their pace?