Page 1 of 2 1 2 LastLast
Results 1 to 10 of 198

Hybrid View

  1. #1
    Player Kosmos992k's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2013
    Location
    Ul'Dah
    Posts
    4,349
    Character
    Kosmos Meishou
    World
    Behemoth
    Main Class
    Paladin Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by Kanzer View Post
    I'd say it's more full of bad players who want to excuse being bad instead of actually work to improve. But hey, if they're so good at making friends, then maybe they can just queue with their other bad friends and stay out of duty finder. Then they can enjoy their forever long dungeon runs without any complaints.
    Just want to make a comment about your constant assertions that others are "bad players", "bad" or "baddies".

    Guilty dog barks first, and you're barking a lot.
    (18)

  2. #2
    Player
    missybee's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2013
    Location
    Weeb Town
    Posts
    420
    Character
    Mia Montblanc
    World
    Sargatanas
    Main Class
    Astrologian Lv 94
    Quote Originally Posted by Kosmos992k View Post
    Just want to make a comment about your constant assertions that others are "bad players", "bad" or "baddies".

    Guilty dog barks first, and you're barking a lot.
    I don't know anything about Kanzer's skill, but what I do know is that there are a lot of really terrible players here on the OF that go on and on about how their way is superior when it is just objectively incorrect.

    So...there's just a lot of "barking" in general.
    (6)

  3. #3
    Player
    Kanzer's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2013
    Location
    Gridania
    Posts
    185
    Character
    Kanzer Vardel
    World
    Gilgamesh
    Main Class
    Reaper Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by missybee View Post
    I don't know anything about Kanzer's skill, but what I do know is that there are a lot of really terrible players here on the OF that go on and on about how their way is superior when it is just objectively incorrect.

    So...there's just a lot of "barking" in general.
    And when you try to tell them their way is incorrect and actually show evidence of it, you're just being 'toxic'.
    (6)

  4. #4
    Player Kosmos992k's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2013
    Location
    Ul'Dah
    Posts
    4,349
    Character
    Kosmos Meishou
    World
    Behemoth
    Main Class
    Paladin Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by missybee View Post
    I don't know anything about Kanzer's skill, but what I do know is that there are a lot of really terrible players here on the OF that go on and on about how their way is superior when it is just objectively incorrect.

    So...there's just a lot of "barking" in general.
    If you mean there is a wide variation in skill, sure, but people who can't resist calling other players names like 'bads' and 'baddies' are in their own little niche of skill. I don't care about their in-game skill, the skill I refer to is the ability to annoy and offend others.

    Regardless of the amount of barking, the guilty dog still barks first.

    Quote Originally Posted by Kanzer View Post
    Useless comment that has nothing to do with the discussion actually going on. Though I can't say I'm surprised. Ruff. :>
    It's very relevant given the way you appear to deliberately offend others with the way you characterize players. You're so quick to point fingers at others, I have to wonder whether you might be trying to distract attention from something else.

    Quote Originally Posted by Kanzer View Post
    And when you try to tell them their way is incorrect and actually show evidence of it, you're just being 'toxic'.

    Whether you're called 'toxic' or not has a lot more to do with *how* you convey your message than it does your message. Considering the posts of yours that I have replied to here, I am not surprised at all that people might consider you to be toxic, not because of the message you are trying to deliver, but the way in which you deliver it. If you lace your message with insults, calling others bad or lazy, how do you think your message will be received?
    (11)
    Last edited by Kosmos992k; 07-18-2017 at 05:13 AM.

  5. #5
    Player
    Kanzer's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2013
    Location
    Gridania
    Posts
    185
    Character
    Kanzer Vardel
    World
    Gilgamesh
    Main Class
    Reaper Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by Kosmos992k View Post



    It's very relevant given the way you appear to deliberately offend others with the way you characterize players. You're so quick to point fingers at others, I have to wonder whether you might be trying to distract attention from something else.




    Whether you're called 'toxic' or not has a lot more to do with *how* you convey your message than it does your message. Considering the posts of yours that I have replied to here, I am not surprised at all that people might consider you to be toxic, not because of the message you are trying to deliver, but the way in which you deliver it. If you lace your message with insults, calling others bad or lazy, how do you think your message will be received?
    Life's too short to always be worried about 'how' you're conveying your message. Besides, the guys talking about how they'd deliberately wipe a group because they're mad at a DPS pulling some extra mobs don't seem too concerned with how their message is conveyed. Lack of skill mixed with that kind of attitude indeed makes you a baddie. And that's the exactly the type of person I'm addressing. Are you that type of person? If so, guess what that makes you?
    (4)

  6. #6
    Player
    Galgarion's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2014
    Posts
    612
    Character
    Famine Cruor
    World
    Mateus
    Main Class
    Marauder Lv 70
    That's a false equivalency, Kanzer. You're equating lack of experience with lack of skill. No two people learn at the same rate. Your mentaliity of sink or swim might produce short-term gains in the form of finishing the dungeon faster, but it's bad in the long run if your actions cause a frustrated and embarrassed tank to stop wanting to play. Future groups are impacted by that. A little patience can go a long way.
    (12)
    Last edited by Galgarion; 07-18-2017 at 05:46 AM.

  7. #7
    Player
    Kanzer's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2013
    Location
    Gridania
    Posts
    185
    Character
    Kanzer Vardel
    World
    Gilgamesh
    Main Class
    Reaper Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by Galgarion View Post
    That's a false equivalency, Kanzer. You're equating lack of experience with lack of skill. No two people learn at the same rate. Your mentaliity of sink or swim might produce short-term gains in the form of finishing the dungeon faster, but it's bad in the long run if your actions cause a frustrated and embarrassed tank to stop wanting to play. Future groups are impacted by that. A little patience can go a long way.
    I have no issues with someone who has a desire to get better. I'm referring to the ones who are fine with performing terribly and then get angry with people who don't accept that that's just the way they want to be. No false equivalency here, no misunderstanding of what's what.
    (1)

  8. #8
    Player
    Roegan's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2017
    Posts
    24
    Character
    Roegan Skaetmoen
    World
    Zodiark
    Main Class
    Scholar Lv 70
    Quote Originally Posted by Kanzer View Post
    I have no issues with someone who has a desire to get better. I'm referring to the ones who are fine with performing terribly and then get angry with people who don't accept that that's just the way they want to be. No false equivalency here, no misunderstanding of what's what.
    I always seek to improve myself, but guess who I don't go to for help? The person whining and moaning and calling people "baddies" and spitting their dummy out.
    (8)

  9. #9
    Player Kosmos992k's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2013
    Location
    Ul'Dah
    Posts
    4,349
    Character
    Kosmos Meishou
    World
    Behemoth
    Main Class
    Paladin Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by Kanzer View Post
    Are you that type of person? If so, guess what that makes you?
    If you read my posts here you know what kind of person I am, and no, I wouldn't wipe a group or let a party member die on purpose. I'm a tank, tanks don't do that.

    You say life is to short for niceties, except you were the one bemoaning being called toxic. If your own conduct leads to you being called toxic, then modify your behavior, or stop complaining about it.
    (7)

  10. #10
    Player
    Kanzer's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2013
    Location
    Gridania
    Posts
    185
    Character
    Kanzer Vardel
    World
    Gilgamesh
    Main Class
    Reaper Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by Kosmos992k View Post
    If you read my posts here you know what kind of person I am, and no, I wouldn't wipe a group or let a party member die on purpose. I'm a tank, tanks don't do that.

    You say life is to short for niceties, except you were the one bemoaning being called toxic. If your own conduct leads to you being called toxic, then modify your behavior, or stop complaining about it.

    You know they have a quote feature, you can actually use it instead of making up your own interpretations of what I actually said. In fact, I'd recommend going back and taking a look, might be good for your reading comprehension.

    Good, I'm glad you're not that type of person. Because if the healer and DPS want bigger pulls, and you aren't delivering, chances are one of them will deliver for you. (Yep, I've seen healers pull too, they're my favorites.)
    (4)

Page 1 of 2 1 2 LastLast