Quote Originally Posted by winsock View Post
And now you're want the tank not only to comply with your request, but to go out of their way to ask you if you have one...
Go out of their way? It takes 5, FIVE, seconds to ask. I heal and tank and always ask. Or as the healer I usually tell them big pulls are ok. It is a single line of chat at the very start. How is that going out of anyone's way?