Thank you for the perspective. In response, I must further clarify. My hypothetical situation is not at the sacrifice of the others in the party. I personally would never pull outside of the scope of what the healer could feasibly heal. Meaning, wipes/deaths are not an inherent issue. I present the following scenario as clarification:
- Healer only heals, and nothing else. It isn't because of anxiety or some kind of newness. It's just them being lazy or spiteful.
- Healer is averaging (example) 1 action every 10 seconds - with a net loss of about 7.5 seconds of productivity.
- I know that if I pull an extra monster or two, I can raise their Actions Per Minute (APM) by causing them to heal more, making them more productive. This is actually what a lot of "healing only" healers say they want. A world where all they are supposed to do is heal, because they have no time for anything else.
- I know that the DPS will be met with extra AoE damage falloff in many cases, which may lead to greater TP/MP consumption over the short-term. This leads to greater downtime between pulls. However, the falloff isn't that bad when we're talking about such small numbers of extra adds.
Mechanically, a healer who refuses to heal for any reason will make the volume of the pull irrelevant - unless the pull is so small that you and the DPS can burn it down faster than it can kill you. This hypothetical situation I presented would be used as a means of better utilizing the healer based on their terms, not mine. A compromise of sorts. It's not antagonistic, because it isn't supposed to be presented as "Oh yeah, well if you won't do what I want, then watch this!"
I think my largest mistake here was presenting it with way too much hyperbole. I'm a career DPS, so any idea that I believed would be inherently bad for a DPS player wouldn't fly for me.
I also see the world in a very mechanical fashion. If the problem is that you feel the healer doesn't have enough to do, and you directly control how much they have to do, and giving them more to do makes you feel better and doesn't hurt anyone else, then do it. Of course you shouldn't go stupid with it. That doesn't help anyone. Least of all the DPS who get caught in the middle like kids when mom and dad fight.