This is a genuine question, not intended to call anyone out. But the past few dungeon queues as a paladin, I've had healers, mostly AST/WHM, who pretty much exclusively focus on DPS, and when healing is needed, they use Helios/Medica to heal up, or not even that. Now, I can usually keep myself up with Clemency to supplement Regens or shields, but with the past few runs, we've wiped because I don't get any heals incoming because I see our healer spamming Malefic or Stone. Hell, there are times when I have to use Clemency to heal up other party members just to keep them up through regular boss mechanics.

Is this a problem that I am personally at fault with, or were these just some bad healers who don't know how to do their job? I am most certainly not opposed to healers dealing damage, it's why I do smaller pulls, so that I don't take as much damage and healers can DPS without worry about me going down in a few crits, but when they focus exclusively on DPSing, it becomes a problem.