A contentious subject to be sure. My personal approach is just sit back and watch the cutscenes and let the other 7 people do the work. The fights are uninspiring, the sfx are annoying, and nobody will stop and tell you how to do the fights anyway, so you don't miss much. Think of it as a movie, but you also get some tomes and experience. All the "2kool4skool" veteran players won't even notice you're gone.