This entire situation would probably vanish if DF, or maybe even the NA community as a whole, just used a simple social skill called "Communication".All I've witnessed is demands. Demands and tantrums.

DPS like BLM load into DF with randoms and demand mass pulls before the instance even loads. Tanks pull small only for the healer to body pull the next pack "for them". Tanks die because mobs are hitting too hard and blame the healer. So tanks are conditioned to mass pull- guess what? that healer isnt happy about your "judgement". Tanks are such mindless lemmings, copying the big boys, aren't they? God, they're so squishy!

Yup, we just need more Tanks and healers around.

Duty Finder is a mess... whatever happened to just... ASKING? And you guys want people to pick up healing and tanking right now. Ha!