I don't like being punished for wanting to run dungeons.

[Yahallo]

I find these statements to be false, i think you mix up your Duty Finder and Party Finder.
MSQ requires us to que up on DF as 1st timers in order to progress...

I didn't mix them up, I am simply stating how it is in Japan. That is how they use their duty finder and party finder. MSQ does not prevent you from queueing in as a full group for your first time.

Why even believe what the OP even says? you just blindly take his word on thats what actually happend?

Benefit of the doubt and the fact thar it is pointless to call him a liar. It is better to cement our position under the circumstances we are given. Regardless of what really happened, it doesn't change our stance on the matter: if you are actively and purposely stopping people from progressing in an instance then you are griefing. That is the stance we are taking and regardless of what really happened, that stance does not change.