If you type out everything you want to say, then cut out everything but the first 10 characters or so, then submit it and edit it, you can then paste it all into one post.

As for the first example. I don't sympathise much. Not everybody wants to run through the dungeon as fast as possible. Some want to look around, some want to get the blue chests so they can get their aether gear up.

On the other hand, yeah, the second dude should have let you kick those guys. Five minutes is enough to log in if you get dc'd