As a new tank ifeel like i have to chime in for the people who get annoyed over tanks not pulling multiple groups.

Just from my perspective when i see a mob wander away from me and start chasing the healer and i struggle to get hate back i start to panic, then i start to get stressed, then i start to get angry and that does help anything.

There are too many gung-ho dps in this game who the moment they see my shield leave my body they have already attacked the mob i'm not targeting causing the pack to split up and giving me more stress.

My default is small pulls until i get much better at the game, if you are in a legit hurry (have to pick kids up from school or something similar) tell me and i'll do my best to pull more groups but outside of that i'm sticking with small pulls to limit the stress on myself.

The last thing i need is a jumped up little healer demanding i do more than i'm comfortable.