I don't mind if the Tank is doing larger pulls (if you ask first) and can handle it. If he nearly dies nonstop and drains all my MP on every and each pull and it's a gamble of surviving or dying, I'd actually expect the Tank to slow down. This should also be normal if the groups pulled take forever to kill because the DPS can't keep up for some reason. Last time I asked the Tank to slow down, he and his DPS Friend kicked me without a warning. In front of the last boss. I'm always a friendly person and I really hate to ask you to slow down as it feels like I am doing a bad job as a healer. Please Tanks - You can't carry the weight of the world without the help of the Healers, and if we beg you to slow it down a little bit - may as well accept as we usually do not ask without reason.