My guild & I are midcore raiders, looking for a new server to jump onto and we've been seriously considering Cactuar since one of our other friends is highly recommending it based on the friendliness.
While it is very important, I also wanted to get an overall feel on how the raiding scene is over there. We've moved servers before, and the one we're on now just never really sat well at all. During recruitment of members, people had a real disconnected feel once they got into the group and didn't want to talk much or stay after hours to chat and participate with the group. One of our old rules was for people in our raid group to join our FC (consisting of strictly just our raid members for a closer community) and we had to pretty much abolish it on the new server we ended up on because people were just not interested in long term commitment, which in turn made us uncomfortable.
Do you guys pick up a log of pugs for raids? Geeeve deets, plz :3