If you already feel this way, then this FC isn't right for you. Sometimes it takes a few before you find the group that works for you. Shop around and see what other FC's are like. Most members are often willing to give you the run down.

Also from what you said from your description, I would pass on your FC. Don't stay with them if they already make you want to dodge them in discord. Other FC's will run you through story quickly Good Luck!