How to determinate if i should leave my FC ?

[Darus]

Play games to have fun, nothing else matters. If the FC is not fun DROP IT. If your teammates make you want to quit DROP EM. A good FC makes the game better, not worse.

And as a master's level psychology student specializing in autism- your FC leader is an imbecile.

Find fun over skill and stress, they don't "play" content, it's work without pay. People who laugh at losing are best.

[Katryn]

Much as you wanna succeed, you've got to consider at what cost you're willing to let that happen. I know I wouldn't put up with the nonsense you're describing.

[Ferrasper]

It already sounds like your mind is made up which is too leave. It is great and all that you got progress done, but FCs are more then about progress. You have to like the people and how it is run as well otherwise you will just be miserable, and it sounds like you are a little miserable there especially if you have to avoid one person. I am sure there are some hardcore FCs out there that you will fit in perfectly with.

I also hate the autistic insult people throw around. I know people that have it, so I consider it extremely rude to call people that as an insult. I would have left immediately and fucked their night over if I was called that.

[Kaelah]

Find yourself a new fc. The one you are in sounds unpleasant. If anyone is so horrid that you actively feel the need to avoid them, that will mess with your enjoyment. Just politely tell them you want a change or something.

I'm sure you can find another hardcore raiding fc or static without having to play with people you dislike. (Cannot say for certain, I'm a very casual player!)

[MaikoRaines]

My FC is a mixed bag of both casual and hardcore players, and our end game is to have fun and not take it seriously at all - our mentality towards the game remains similar to one another - it's just a game. Infact, our members are pretty pro/hardcore but at the same time, patient and nice people. We could wipe a bunch of times and not clear it, no one would be upset. We'd laugh and learn from it. That's how they got their A12S clear and helped late bloomers like myself clear it. It also helps when we casually chat on Discord which confuses the hell out of members who usually don't voice chat with us and wonder why we're so quiet in FC chat.

[NosamKin]

Just leave and find another one. There are many out there.

I was in my first FC and it was a good one - friendly, house, airship, etc - but the core group were often on at different times of day than I was. The rest of the FC seemed to be happy running around more of less solo. So through no fault of theirs I often felt like an outsider.
I can't imagine being in one where I avoided players in the FC. At that point why bother?

I left to join a very small FC (no house, airship, etc) and don't regret it at all.

[Johaandr]

Leave o; dissing ur dps uncalled is kind of rude bcuse you did not ask them how much dps you did i assume? Its against Tos and you can simply report them with no hesitation.

I see you are playing on moogle (unoffical french server).
You can always change server tho unless you already got some friends there outside that fc.
Finding FC is kind of hard in a period. Finding something you think will fit in. I had the same excact problem 2 yrs ago and i just randomly joined a large FC. One of them were shoting in limsa recruiting members and i thought "why not?". After i joined the first thing i notice was the warm welcome greet that made me stay till today.
The point is: find a FC with new people and get to know them. Make friends and have fun. Its never to late to find one.

Soo.. come to odin and join our FC xDdd

[Xx-ReiN-xX]

I left a FC recently which I was part of it for almost a year now and was one of the highest officer. I made some good friends, they still are. I was very helpful toward my FC mates but things turn ugly, I main tank which is the first and only 70 tank in my FC. I help some of them queued for some dungeon run knowing how long DPS queue is. But someone took it for granted and asked me to queued with him. I declined for the first time as I was busy elsewhere. That negative response must have strike him hard as he made some crappy comment about how he will lvl he's tank to 70 now because some of us think they are too important and all. It was so hurtful I left the FC in a whim. Some of my FC mates PM me later telling me how it was crappy of him and understood the situation (they also point out how he's a toxic jerk to others who had also left before I joined) but they can't kick him as he's one of the FC founder. Well now i'm a FC-less adventurer and I don't regret it.

So if you're not happy for whatever reason, just leave.

[jameseoakes]

I left a FC recently which I was part of it for almost a year now and was one of the highest officer. I made some good friends, they still are. I was very helpful toward my FC mates but things turn ugly, I main tank which is the first and only 70 tank in my FC. I help some of them queued for some dungeon run knowing how long DPS queue is. But someone took it for granted and asked me to queued with him. I declined for the first time as I was busy elsewhere. That negative response must have strike him hard as he made some crappy comment about how he will lvl he's tank to 70 now because some of us think they are too important and all. It was so hurtful I left the FC in a whim. Some of my FC mates PM me later telling me how it was crappy of him and understood the situation (they also point out how he's a toxic jerk to others who had also left before I joined) but they can't kick him as he's one of the FC founder. Well now i'm a FC-less adventurer and I don't regret it.

So if you're not happy for whatever reason, just leave.

Sounds like you made a good call there!

[White_Wolf_X]

"my DPS was kinda low even if i am a Tank."

I say report them x)

Cause it seems they are using a parser/dps meter which is a big no no =p


"we would like to remind players that using third-party programs, parsers, or other tools to conduct actions players would not normally be able to do in the game is a violation of the Terms of Service, and will be dealt with strict disciplinary action.

http://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodest...818.1495468716