You could come play on Hyperion with me! We don't have long queues!

But in all seriousness, it probably is just people afk. And there are so many players on Balmung to beginwith so its gonna be a pain to get through the queues. I can't even imagine trying to play on such a crazily populated server. My dps dungeon queues are over an hour most of the time, if I had to wait in queue for three hours to even play? I can't even..