Ya, I've been getting DCed at times on Balmung as well. The big issue at present on the server is all the people afk, refusing to log out. I understand why people are doing it, but its making matters much worse.
At this point I'm open to transferring, but I don't know where to go that will have a good sized community once all the expansion congestion is over. The last thing I want to do is transfer to a server that will be dead in 3 months.