Question to mages that have played post-update (specifically nukers)

[Jinko]

i also hate having only 1 cure option and no enfeebling and extremely high costs of nukes.

You have 3 cure options 5 if you include Sacred Prism + Cure/Cura. (Granted Nukes are far too costly)

Why do you play a game that you hate so much ?

Edit:- I see you meant on THM, I have no issu soloing on THM, use Thundaga/Firaga Combos and you shouldn't even need to cure.

i had to quit my party last night because we didnt have a CNJ and i couldnt heal for as much as the party needed.

Well if you refuse to play as a healer you only have yourself to blame, can't have it both ways.