My wife and I both tried to download the update and about the same time. For her it went through first try and shes been playing for almost 2 hours. For me, I consistently get this message after the downloader sits there at 0.0bps for about 5 min:

11030 Fild download timed out. Please shut down and restart FINAL FANTASY XIV.(3:40012,20498,20049)

I have restarted it probably close to 50 times now. Nothing has changed and the exact same error pops up every single time. Is anyone else having this problem? Does anyone know of a solution? Any advice would be appreciated.