I was on Gilgamesh since launch (and even moved my original Legacy character from Balmung once that was an option). A few weeks before the transfer incentives were announced, I moved to Mateus. If I had waited a little while, I could have kept all of my gil when transferring, gotten some gold feathers, and saved some money IRL too. But you know what? The positives of not being on those servers far, *far* outweigh those losses. If you don't want queues, you don't have to have them. If your friends won't move, that's their loss. You can still queue up with them using the cross-server party finder. Stop making excuses. Even if Square Enix did something about this, the experience would still be much better on a small server. Do yourself a favor and transfer. It costs the same as complaining!