Rampart and convalescence are 100% always because they synergise so well with our job. Awareness is great with bulwark or even just to get more blocks. Personally haven't taken reprisal, it's nice but PLD already has a fair amount of party wide mitigation, leave that to the DRKs and WARs.

Ultimatum seems kind of useless, the only time I see using that is if we wipe in a dungeon and a dps/healer brings the rest of the pack back to the start. Shirk is nice for tank swaps and just generally helping MT keep the lead. Anticipation isn't great for PLD because parry checks after block so it's less effective for us than the other tanks. Interject is situational and since we have shield bash we don't need low blow.

So my setup is provoke, rampart, convalescence, awareness and 1 situational spot where I'll put the other moves based on need, when I need nothing, I put reprisal.