Your lack of empathy for your fellow players is disheartening.
The simple fact is, one of the Grand Companies were given an advantage through gear when Yoshida said they wouldn't. It's the principal that is the issue. We cannot change companies and cannot purchase their items.
This was a largely expressed concern months ago and we were reassured item rewards wouldn't be an issue. Now they are.
That would be the ideal solution but when asked that months ago the devs said they have no plans for it.