52 minutes queue for dps is great

[Amelia_Pond_Behemoth]

I have an idea. Stop blaming healers and tanks for every single wipe

[Syfurion]

I have an idea. Stop blaming healers and tanks for every single wipe

I get the feeling you didn't actually read what this thread was about. No one is blaming tanks or healers for this situation at present.

[Amelia_Pond_Behemoth]

I get the feeling you didn't actually read what this thread was about. No one is blaming tanks or healers for this situation at present.

No, I read correctly. Understand that tanxiety and the healer equivalent stems from a fear of being yelled at for even the most minor of offenses. Be kind to tanks and healers, and you'll likely see more people willing to play as tanks and healers, reducing wait times for all.

[Faeon]

As someone who plays a tank, and always have. The reason why we don't DF with randoms is because of the mentioned answer below. Tanks get the most criticism in parties, always have and always will, healers come next in that line. As nasty as this sounds, suck it up and live with it, it's not going to change in a mmo. I am leveling my DPS job now and I also see the 30min queue wait times as well. I just do other things and live with it, if I dont get a spot i just cancel and fate grind, hunts or POD or go with some fc mates.

[BlastHardcheese]

No, I read correctly. Understand that tanxiety and the healer equivalent stems from a fear of being yelled at for even the most minor of offenses. Be kind to tanks and healers, and you'll likely see more people willing to play as tanks and healers, reducing wait times for all.

I tanked all through ARR and have healed thus far from the arse end of HW up until today: I've found the above to be true but what's also true is if the dps get pissy enough you can drop duty, eat your penalty, re-queue and probably be back in a dungeon before they get a replacement. Even if not it beats helping people that trigger happy with F bombs to complete goals.

If people act like uncivilised children over minor things Ive got better things to be doing tbh...