Well this is a first

[MoroMurasaki]

OP props to you for putting up with all that.

I often play with my boyfriend, he tanks I heal. Since we have IRL communication/synergy it's easy for me to let his health drop quite low, especially if I'm rolling WHM and Bene is available. He calls it "heart attack healing" (mostly lovingly I think) but the problem then arises when hes not tanking and I have a pug group. Some tanks just expect their health to never drop below 80%. I don't understand. To date I've never been kicked for it but I have had a few initiate that. DPS have always stood up for me though!

[Feidam]

OP props to you for putting up with all that.

I often play with my boyfriend, he tanks I heal. Since we have IRL communication/synergy it's easy for me to let his health drop quite low, especially if I'm rolling WHM and Bene is available. He calls it "heart attack healing" (mostly lovingly I think) but the problem then arises when hes not tanking and I have a pug group. Some tanks just expect their health to never drop below 80%. I don't understand. To date I've never been kicked for it but I have had a few initiate that. DPS have always stood up for me though!

Heart attack healing I love it! However, this is the heart of the matter for some folks I think. I know have freaked out for the tanks and tossed heals from my smn on him because the healer let him get to like 5% health. Then used benediction. Not everyone is comfortable with this type of healing and it does go wrong quite wrong regularly. Some people are pros with it but others not so much and it is frustrating when the run could have gone completely smoothly if the healer had just been a little more conservative. I only say something to a healer though if it happens more than once.

[Sebazy]

I'll leave this here:

http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/t...88#post4138888

TLDR = Monk didn't kill the Baelsar's Wall collar twice and blamed it on the healer for DPSing too much =(

Bads will be bad, it's best to just leave it to natural selection and karma to deal with them imo.

[MyowzayaTrousas]

- I actually got talked down to for DPSing.
- The tank pulled more than we could handle.
- Then out of nowhere the bard has the balls to act like it was my fault.

I'm assuming since this was leveling roulette, this all happened at lower levels with few skills. I get it. You can't Wombo-Combo heal the group if you don't have anything besides Cure I.

But above 50, If you're DPSing instead of healing and the group wipes as a result, it's probably your fault.

just my worthless 2 cents; please account for inflation.

[Deceptus]

They're just salty because you were doing better than they were