All this said, skyrim has flaws and i could see why not everyone would be entertained, but if you dont like it meh just dont buy it, i think we can be sure of one thing, skyrim doesnt need your money anymore.
Comparing XIV and Skyrim is a pointless endeavour, the scenarios are completely different. XIV has a bad reputation and deservedly so, Skyrim is vastly overrated but still manages to be a decent product worth a playthrough.

There hardly exists a game that doesn't offer multiple ways to develop your character. Games with excellent gameplay systems and balance usually can offer three to four playstyles, and more with small gimmicks to set them apart. skyrim is no different except the gameplay sucks. being an RPG is no excuse for dated gameplay and an UI that manages to be lacking for both pads and keyboard/mouse.