This game can be a bit of a culture shock to players coming from other mmos. Considering in most mmos, the healer has no time for dps or their dps is trivially low.

It took me a while to grasp the concept of "Healers can actually do some damage" myself.

Took even longer to grasp the concept of "SCH is an offhealer, even in 4 man content. Don't try to be a main healer, just support and back your faerie up"